This used to be way easier - and a lot more fun!

[DonH]

I have not, partly because I've not thought that far ahead. It's sort of like living in my parents house and thinking about how I'd decerate my own home, how I'd fix things that broke, how I'd mow the lawn, etc. - rather than about what kind of house I could afford, what city I may want to live in, how large I'd like the house to be (or his small) etc.

That said, I could rather easily create a decent starter list like you are talking about. I know very well what I want, or at least what I believe I want and perhaps more importantly don't want.I think that is in part why I reject or don't peruse many of the women I encounter as they dont appear to meet much of what would be on that list.

I'm guessing that really the list is in my head in great part. I'm happy to write it out on here if it will help. Tell me, what would I do with it if I wrote it out? I'm not sure what you're driving at but would love to hear.

I could totally supply the blue prints for my perfect women. I just need someone to build her, or just find her and deliver her to my door. I'd really love that!