SBJ,

So help me out because I am really strugggling with this. My W also says we will always be best friends. I said I want to be her H not her friend. W also says she meant her vows when she made them but she's no longer the same person so they no longer apply--how convenient! How do you manage this twisted dynamic? And yes, she cares about appearances so will not go public with her romantic pursuits until we are officially D.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving