Did your W have a fairly normal childhood? Did either of you date others before becoming high school sweethearts?
There are some threads about the mindset of a wayward wife. You should be able to see if it sounds like your W.
Yes and no.. I mean to how I was raised it was much different, which shows some in our parenting differences. Nothing bad, just seemed her upbringing was less fun more structured.. And yes we both dated others before. Sex with others, no...