So on this "going dark" thing. After I really told him what I thought of his behavior the other night, I have halted all communication. I have gotten three texts since:
Saturday @ 12pm "I'm going to have to come back when I pick up the girls next week and work on trying to get the scratches out of your bumper in the garage" (he scraped my car backing out the other night)
Sunday @ 6pm "Hey, I'm going to drop off Aly's bear in a few minutes, FYI" (I told her to go downstairs and meet him at the door. Did not greet him or see him.)
Monday @ 7pm "I don't know if Aly told you but she said she thew her keys on the roof. She asked me if I would come get them off. So if its ok I was going to swing over and get them."
I haven't answered any of his texts, which is new for me. Should I be acknowledging them or is this ok? I really just don't want anything to do with him after the other night.
Me : 42 Him : 43 M : 18, T : 19 D13, D11 4/16 1st BD (ILYB) 11/16 H wants s, moves out of br 1/17 H rents house & moves out 2/17 OW (he denies PA but EA last winter) 5/17 I filed for D 7/17 D Final