Like ForGump, I'm close to sit down time. How did your kids know your W was driving the bus in terms of wanting D? Did you tell them or did they just know. I know the advice is often for parents to say we decided...but that seems dishonest.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving