I think it's time to think about casually dating if or when you are ready to close the door on your marriage. However, until or unless that point comes I would stick to doing things which are more social and less potentially complicated..
There is plenty of opportunity to get out and about looking attractive, doing interesting new things and meeting others without causing potential hurt to yourself or to a new woman by getting involved before you are truly ready to leave your marriage behind.
Sure there are but none of them will convince a wayward spouse they might lose you. Attention from the opposite sex will. Plus, I didn't say dating. Everyone here seems to jump right to that conclusion as if men and women can't go do something social without romance entering into it. I'm saying just casual hangouts, coffee. Not dating. Nothing serious. A few people right here have taken that advice and came back to say it made them feel awesome and it worked on their spouse. Going to the gym doesn't make a wayward spouse fear losing you. Going to coffee with a member of the opposite sex does.
Hi Lex23,
Spending time with another female isn't a one size fits all solution/suggestion. What might be ok for one, would be devastating for another.
This would be best answered by your DB Coach on whether or not this is good for you and your specific situation.
Cristy
Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004
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