Well I made an appointment to do a consultation with an attorney. I want to start getting my ducks in a row. I am not filing yet, but I am to the point that I just don't see this marriage being saved.
It's been 10 months in separate bedrooms and no sex.
I've begun to lose interest in her and I do believe she is getting her needs met elsewhere. Whether it be emotionally and/or physically.
I am just at a point were I refuse to be in this marriage any longer without my needs being met. We are nothing more than co-parents and friends. I have begun to loathe the fact that she is getting all the benefits of marriage while not providing any back to me.
So therefore my love tank is empty.
I am devastated at what this is going to do to our son. He knows something is going on. And he even brought it up Friday.
He said he thinks I am going to leave. I told him that I will always be there for him and that I will always love him.


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it