I will admit that my first thought was mind games, but Blu makes valid points and I was just projecting from my own experiences. Blu is of course correct, you can't control her, but taking control of how you react makes all the difference.
I echo others' sentiment: I'm glad you have this wonderful family and support system. Keep your head up, stay strong, and continue to love yourself and who you are becoming.
Me: 35 W: 32 MR: 2y T: 3.5y SS11 BD: 11/3/16 EA: 10/26/16 PA: 11/11/16 W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16 Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL I filed for D: 12/14/16 D-day: 3/10/17