Does anyone have any good advice on how to manage when CHL does things that remind me of J which therefore leads me to the ASSumption of all the time CHL must be spending with her?

I know he always puts his job first. But when we were dating he didn't. He put me first.

Now even with this huge project going on and supposed to wrap up tonight. He left work Thursday evening to go to the club with her rather than work to get stuff done he was complaining to me he didn't have done for tonight.

I know I need to drop this rope, it shouldn't matter at this point as in a week and a half we will be divorced.

But he doesn't act towards me like someone he is divorcing so it is hard for me to keep that in mind as to me his actions and my thinking are that he is still my h.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"