Was trying to say that the OW might look pretty on the outside but if she's having an affair, she's not so pretty on the inside. In contrast, 010207's got loyalty and heart. The OW can't get those qualities by working out more at the gym.
Gotcha. You'll have to excuse the brain fart. Haha
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.