Thank you for the links, Job. I got a head start on them from reading other posts over the weekend, and will continue making my way through the list. Forewarned is forearmed, as they say!
Me : 42 Him : 43 M : 18, T : 19 D13, D11 4/16 1st BD (ILYB) 11/16 H wants s, moves out of br 1/17 H rents house & moves out 2/17 OW (he denies PA but EA last winter) 5/17 I filed for D 7/17 D Final