Hi SBJ ...thanks for visiting my thread... I really appreciate you sharing your story...yes it is very sad ...I don't know if it ever make sense... as if they were abducted by an alien . My h doesnot communicate between words I would see a msg that he is working alll the time and wishing he will get more time to spend with his family ... I get something like this once a month ... that he is working hard too.. but that is it I have no idea how he is living . He doesnot say he doesnot want us but also doesnot say he do. His actions say he will never come back unless he has money to afford us.

When I compare between ur W and H I feel he was always appreciated for being the best until one day they couldnot live up to expectation .. as if they can't handle feeling less ...does that make sense.

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M 45 H 45
D1 12 D2 9
BD 04/14
Living two different state
Not officially separated