I'm one month into GAL activities and I think my W is becoming comfortable with the situation. Everything is friendly and the house is well run but there is no more physical loving at all. It's a bit sad but overall I am in the best emotional state that I have been in since this all started. I hope that W doesn't just rest here comfortably. It's a weird place to be stuck. I guess I can only continue and hope for the best at this point.
Hi Lex23,
Great news that you are in the best emotional state that you have been in since this all started. Sounds like your GAL activities are paying off!
You say your wife is becoming comfortable with the current situation. Specifically, what leads you to believe this?
It is probably a good time to speak with your DB Coach again so you can discuss this feeling of being stuck.
Cristy
Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004
I am thinking this because she is in a pretty good mood everyday but putting zero energy into our R and not showing any signs of wanting anything more at all. The kids are taken care of and her time to paint and flirt with OM are maximized while I spend more free time doing my own thing.
What are you doing for GAL? If you're not doing it anyway, then start going out on social engagements. Have the time of your life. Without the wife of course. Not just other dudes either. Nothing wrong with women being on these social engagements. After all, you're moving on, doing GAL.
