Originally Posted By: 100383
Originally Posted By: ForGump
Still hurts.



Yes, Gump. I know. It's still daggers in the heart. But I hope the dulling that you previously described will continue. I don't think you'll ever be pain-free. You'll have an aching scar, but hopefully the pain won't be so sharp. That's what I'm anticipating for myself.


Originally Posted By: maly
Originally Posted By: maly
They kinda think they have been our slaves,and we controlled them all thru the marriage ,now they want to be free and run wild,


In there heads we are the evil slave masters,and they want the chains off,
That's why its all our fault how they are feeling,that's why they kinda hate us,
And they want to be free and get this new better life,


Yup. This would be my H's perspective 100%. He just wants to break free.


Trouble is they got it all wrong we are their best friends in the world,and most of them had good lifes and they cant see that,but when in this sitch they have to learn that the hard way,unless of course they find a better life,


Me 56 w52
M30 years
4x adult kids
W dad died/11
W wanted d 03/12
In-house sep 03/12
D 2014 I pushed
W Left on 02/16 I pushed
Pa on 07/16
Nc after 07/16
W Cakeating 15to16
Me doormat 12to16
Limbo 12to16