You have no idea how helpful you've been ! As you said, he had no affair but he got at the beginning completely withdrawn in a hobby that requires a lot of concentration. He spent hours and hours on that. He did that as he had a glass of wine and listened to romantic songs.
Now, he's more connected to kids and pets but not with me.
I wanted to ask if you have tips as to how to treat a live-in MLCer on a daily basis, should I leave the room when he's there, should I initiate conversation? Should I help with his things if he doesn't ask for help? Should I be loving or distant? He is always nice and very civil , luckily.
Another difficult issue for me is our sex life. I'm initiating it more often because he mentioned that as an issue in BD. At the beginning , months ago, he rejected me but not anymore. I get frustrated, though, because he's not as involved as he used to be. Should I voice this? Should I stop pursuing in this aspect ?
Any idea if this type of man in crisis ever awakens or keeping things as they usually were makes the whole thing longer?
