Hi again Not trying to defend H doing . Nor that he is being a jerk now. But maybe trying to defend what I always saw in him. This guy started work and supported his family since 16. He put his brother to college and he got both sister wedded and paid the wedding expenses. He supported his mom along with his younger brother later . This guy was a generous through our 11 years of marriage even now he doesnot count if he has it he will give it. Or maybe that is how I saw it . This guy used to take care of his kids all the time especially when I traveled on business. But once he had no money and apperently his brother and family didnot care or that is how he saw it he went into depression and mic ... and a totally new guy emerged selfish brutal , careless , ignoring me and everyone else... This sound so sad ... but I still see what he was not what he became.
M 45 H 45 D1 12 D2 9 BD 04/14 Living two different state Not officially separated
