Working on a Trial Separation Agreement with MLC H

[SBJ]

cc, I know exactly what you mean. My parents (divorced) and my two brothers seemed to continuously tell me how awful the W was and how I don't deserve what she is doing to me and our family. They called daily for the first couple of months, but at some point I gave the four of them that what if question...What if she opens her eyes and comes back to me? What if she does that and you guys are so hate filled that you cannot forgive her. That would then drive a wedge between me and my family.

I guess just as we have to lovingly put down some boundaries with our spouse, we have to also put them down with our parents, siblings, and close friends.