Hi! Thanks a lot for your answer. I was away for a while . Too much confusion!
We've been together for 22 years and His father suffered from depression. He has that tendency,too.
Those words were immediately after BD (April, 2016). At the time he was very depressed and withdrawn.Now he's better but very distant from me. No affair so far.
I was wondering about the dynamics of those who have no affair and stay at home. If I'm not mistaken, he was depressed immediately after BD, does that change the stages? In what ways?.
Thanks a lot for your answer. I really need some help to understand