[quote=peacetoday]
The house was peaceful,,,yes it hurt and was sad but the energy in the house was more positive with him gone/quote]

Totally, the energy is different. I had a friend over and she marveled at how clean the house was. It is also hard getting used to not having a man in the house when you're cooking - so much leftovers now that it's just me and the 2 kids eating!

There are definitely some good things about it and I feel overall more stable than I did when he was coming and going and hiding out in his room.


Me: 45 H: 47, M 23 yrs., T 27 yrs.
S6 & S13
BD: 10/23/16
11/20/16: In-house Separation
12/5/16 H goes to IC , stops confiding in me
12/29/16: Start MC
2/4/17: Trial Separation/H moves out