[quote=peacetoday] The house was peaceful,,,yes it hurt and was sad but the energy in the house was more positive with him gone/quote]
Totally, the energy is different. I had a friend over and she marveled at how clean the house was. It is also hard getting used to not having a man in the house when you're cooking - so much leftovers now that it's just me and the 2 kids eating!
There are definitely some good things about it and I feel overall more stable than I did when he was coming and going and hiding out in his room.
Me: 45 H: 47, M 23 yrs., T 27 yrs. S6 & S13 BD: 10/23/16 11/20/16: In-house Separation 12/5/16 H goes to IC , stops confiding in me 12/29/16: Start MC 2/4/17: Trial Separation/H moves out