1. You are right, any hint of criticism results in a rage. I didn't connect that with her seeing and rebelling against me as an authority figure, wow.
2. My W's POM makes no sense at all, except for his age and the fact that he sees my W as an authority figure (she is his boss)--never connected those dots. I know it is her fantasy but don't know why he would leave his GF to be with a woman 20 years his senior with a H or XH and 5 children.
3. I watch her all the time. How do I stop? Yes, and I need to focus more on me. I haven't really done this despite everyone here telling me this is what I have to do!
4. What do you mean by mirror but be vanilla?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
