HaWho,

Job suggested I read your thread and I have and just want to express my gratitude for all that you have endured and shared. I am inspired by your story and hope that I can be as strong as you have been.

1. I never realied how my W's rebellion against me is driven by unresolved issues with her father.

2. I too was asked for cake eating at bomb drop six months ago and my W insists that she will eventually have her new man and me and the family and we will all be friends.

3. We are still under the same roof but looks like this phase may be ending soon for better or worse.

4. My W also cycles through periods of being normal and icy cold with unpredictable changes.

5. We also have children at home and do family activities which I think changes the dynamic va those without.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving