Start w LRT when you're ready. I say this so you don't flip flop.
Be as consistent with your actions as you can. Her behavior will make you go crazy.
Make sure to meditate and find a healthy outlet to express your frustration and anger.
Dont bother communicating w her. In other words, dont talk w her unless you have to. You need to take care of yourself. Its ok if you are indifferent with her for now. She doesnt appreciate your kind gestures. It only makes her angry because she feels guilty.
What are your GALs?
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017