Again, so sorry for your loss. This is your time to grieve and help your daughter grieve as well.

Your wife is a guest just like everyone else. Appreciate her gesture to be with your family at this time but thats it.

If she shows you some sort of "hope," see it as a kind gesture as all the other guests are doing the same. Dont read into her actions.

Focus your attention on your daughter. This is also an opportunity to have her see you grieve in a healthy balanced way.

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017