Figuring it out - WAW with Affair

[KevinIn]

Sandi2 thank you for the thoughtful reply! Im so thankful i found this community.
Yes, my wife knows that i know about the affair. I haven't mentioned it in 3 weeks though. Im doing what i can to not acknowledge it. However, the other wife did talk to my wofe last week and said that she was telling me about the affair.

The kids are 2 and 5, so i do like them to see me in the video chats as much as possible. My wife has started just giving her phone to them though, so she doesn't see me and i hide if they are with me and chatting her.