How do you come across as patronising and condescending and always needing to be right? A lot of Ws have these complaints and I'm trying to better understand them. I too am calm when my W rages.
She says it is my tone of voice, and choice of words. She did an impression, you would have to hear it That I sound like a teacher talking to a student rather than adult to adult.
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18
That I sound like a teacher talking to a student rather than adult to adult.