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You sound good

I felt sad when MY XH moved out finally after months of crazy MLC behavior

The house was peaceful,,,yes it hurt and was sad but the energy in the house was more positive with him gone

AS time goes on, you can redecorate and make the house new for you and the kids

as for now, it is probably best to let everyone adjust and at the same time, create some new positives for you the kids..activities, friendships, hobbies
I found -they adjust quite well


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow