Thanks Cadet! These posts are incredibly helpful.

Is there a good link to start with on her ongoing affair/infidelity?

As it says in Divorce Remedy, and just about every other thing i've read, she won't even begin to change until she makes the decision to leave the affair.


M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process