She moved out, filed, but I'm still working Pt. 5

[SBJ]

Cali...some of her awesome comments on D.
1. Our parents are divorced and we turned out ok, right? She has 2 siblings (1 is a drug addict of 20 years and the other suffers from anxiety). Not to mention the fact that we are going thru this.
2. Our parents all divorced and they aren't going to hell are they? Kind of depends on your religious views. M is for life. God says he hates D. I guess if you do D and then later repent and feel sorry for what you actually did then the forgiveness is there, but to D just to take care of your selfish needs and then to simply say that you are sorry isn't truly repenting.
3. My kids have seen how a spouse truly loves his W so I know that they have seen the way to do it, but she is showing them a quick exit if you have a rough time...that is what worries me.

Peace...She is totally stable with our kids, but I guess I don't know how she is when they are alone. She is only batchitcrazy with me and now with her sister that disagrees with her. She is truly in a crisis alright...me and our M are collateral damage to her crisis.

CC...she has a need to always look good in everyone else's eyes. I have heard her say different things to justify what she is doing. She has also gotten involved with a new group from a different church in another city close by...none of which know me or my side of the story. They just know her as this wonderful, funny, beautiful woman...who has a bad M and no telling what else she has said.

I already know what D will look like because I am living it right now. Co-parenting with her and making sure my kids will get thru this. Again, we are collateral damage to her selfishness.