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Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic #272845 04/15/04 05:04 PM
Joined: Dec 2002 Posts: 4,885 sage Member
sage Member Joined: Dec 2002 Posts: 4,885	Pam -- I'm sorry that CHL was swearing today...I'm assuming you're talking about the IM? Or was it something else? I read the IM and need to offer up that it seemed as though he was feeling VERY frustrated about KNOWING that there was something going on with you but you weren't telling him WHAT despite some very direct questioning from him (kudos to CHL on the DIRECT approach). I agree that swearing isn't helpful but can you see what happened in the IM that may have led to extreme frustration? It was as though you were telling him that you had something to say and were upset about something -- dangling that in front of him -- but not telling him what it was. How could YOU be more direct in the future? Or, don't approach him until you are ready to talk about what's on your mind? I'm running out for the day so if you do respond to this post don't read into a lack of response from me! You're doing SO GOOD Pam! sage Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.

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Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/08/04 03:48 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	sage	04/08/04 03:49 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/08/04 03:50 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/08/04 03:51 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	Phoenix_In_Bloom	04/08/04 04:08 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/08/04 04:16 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	calystra	04/08/04 04:56 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/08/04 05:04 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	calystra	04/08/04 05:11 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/08/04 06:16 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	rottzilla	04/08/04 06:36 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/08/04 06:39 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	rottzilla	04/08/04 06:47 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/08/04 06:56 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/08/04 07:14 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	rottzilla	04/08/04 07:29 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/08/04 07:33 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	Livnlearn	04/09/04 09:04 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/09/04 09:06 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	Phoenix_In_Bloom	04/09/04 11:49 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/09/04 12:00 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/09/04 01:09 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/09/04 02:02 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/09/04 09:54 PM
So very sorry	wishfulthinking	04/09/04 10:00 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	slt	04/09/04 10:01 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	overtheocean	04/09/04 10:27 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	optimist	04/09/04 10:36 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	odga	04/09/04 11:38 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	totite	04/10/04 02:34 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	dfb	04/10/04 12:00 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/10/04 02:14 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	alaskangal	04/10/04 04:35 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	MovinOn	04/11/04 01:02 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/11/04 01:24 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	MovinOn	04/11/04 01:29 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/11/04 01:30 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	MovinOn	04/11/04 02:47 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	shinybear	04/11/04 06:51 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 01:40 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	MovinOn	04/12/04 01:54 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 11:30 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	Phoenix_In_Bloom	04/12/04 11:33 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 12:12 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 12:14 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	dfb	04/12/04 01:05 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 01:15 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	dfb	04/12/04 01:19 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 01:22 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 01:24 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 02:11 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 02:23 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 02:50 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 02:56 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	dfb	04/12/04 03:31 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 03:36 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	calystra	04/12/04 03:49 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 03:56 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	calystra	04/12/04 05:17 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 05:23 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	BRIDGET	04/12/04 05:50 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/12/04 06:00 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/13/04 09:44 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/13/04 11:15 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	KutieKat	04/13/04 11:20 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	Phoenix_In_Bloom	04/13/04 01:56 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/13/04 02:02 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/13/04 02:11 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/13/04 04:49 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	BRIDGET	04/13/04 05:51 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/13/04 05:56 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/14/04 11:32 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	sage	04/14/04 11:50 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/14/04 12:10 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/14/04 01:35 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	alaskangal	04/14/04 02:20 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/14/04 02:46 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/14/04 02:58 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	MovinOn	04/14/04 03:40 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/14/04 03:43 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/14/04 05:35 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	cycler28	04/14/04 06:52 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	Phoenix_In_Bloom	04/15/04 12:56 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/15/04 02:18 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	sage	04/15/04 02:21 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/15/04 02:27 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/15/04 04:32 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	alaskangal	04/15/04 04:42 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/15/04 04:45 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/15/04 06:31 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/15/04 06:51 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	Phoenix_In_Bloom	04/15/04 06:56 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/15/04 07:01 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	Phoenix_In_Bloom	04/15/04 07:06 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/15/04 07:10 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	Phoenix_In_Bloom	04/15/04 07:14 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/15/04 07:25 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	Phoenix_In_Bloom	04/15/04 07:47 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	sage	04/15/04 05:04 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	MovinOn	04/15/04 05:13 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	dfb	04/15/04 05:59 PM
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Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/15/04 08:34 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/15/04 09:27 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	sage	04/15/04 10:38 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/16/04 11:25 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	MovinOn	04/16/04 11:41 AM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/16/04 12:18 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/16/04 12:33 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	sage	04/16/04 12:38 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	Phoenix_In_Bloom	04/16/04 12:45 PM
Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/16/04 03:45 PM
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Re: Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic	psluke	04/19/04 01:04 PM
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