I am trying to do the 180 method but it seems to currently have no effect on things.. When my W was in the home still she saw that I had changed and was more involved and appreciative as well as with talking and listening.. however she said that she could not believe it will last and felt that I was trying to make her out as the bad parent in this.
Hello Im_Here,
I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.
It sounds like your changes have been noticed, just difficult to believe at this point. These changes need to be made for you and your kids. They need to be long lasting and sincere. Prove that to yourself and anyone else through your actions, not your words.
It isn't uncommon for the WAW to rewrite history to suit her current needs/actions. This is especially true since she is surrounding herself with people that buy into her new lifestyle choices. You can't believe any of what she says and only half of what she does right now.
Knowing what to do and what not to do at this point is crucial. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
Cristy
Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004
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