In the end, I changed my mind about the ultimatum and decided to take a more positive stand. So I asked her if we could put all of our problems aside for now and just focus on reconnecting as friends, for the sake of maintaining a low-conflict environment for our kids. She agreed, and things have been MUCH better between us ever since.
Chris73,
Congratulations on this big step and good for you for enjoying yourself in AC and your other GAL activities.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving