Needing some Guidance

[KCRoo]

Your right Sandi2...I thought long and hard about how I responded to her when she made her admission, and I don't really remember. I was at work, and I think that I was just in shock, so I really don't remember.

I plan to keep following your rules to the best I can. I told her that I wanted full transparency, and spelled it out: passwords to phone, computer, facebook, and any other social media...block his number, "un-friend him on facebook", no more calls taken outside because that is secrecy, not privacy, being home at the time she tells me she will be home; and then joint counseling. (I have told her all this before.)

No she has not agreed to do any of it yet. She has not asked what it would take to fix us.

I may be jumping ahead...today I am re-reading the rules, and boundaries thread. I will not give in, and continue to work the system.