Hey Gordie - I was playing catch up so my posts may have been a bit out of sync with your life. Great that it the rollercoaster is on the level at the minute, and that your 'friendly neighbour' approach is working for you... just remember, it's to help you rather than for her to react differently. It may be connected, it may not... just keep monitoring as per MWD advice
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18