Anna,

I came across an old post by you, and liked what you had to say, and went to read up on your situation, and realized I already had a few exchanges with you back in August last year.

Your signature says separated 5/2014. I think in one of your posts you talked about dating after the divorce. So you did divorce, right? Or are you still DB-ing hoping he'll come back?

If you did divorce, how did you know it was time to date again? Did you wait til you no longer felt in love with your H?


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final