Thank you so much for pointing me in HaWho's direction. I am reading her old threads and learning a TON...particularly because she is also in a situation with young children. I'll post more after I get to digest them.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving