Yesterday, we were having a talk, and out of no where she said:

"I know I have really f*cked you over, and hurt you." While it wasn't an apology, or real full blown remorse, it felt like a little remorse.

While I know the battle is far from over, I did have the thought that maybe the fog is starting to thin in at least one spot. At least she (maybe) recognizes what she is doing is wrong...I am going to try real hard not to backslide, and keep working the program.

She will not be let off the hook until full transparency is achieved, no contact can be verified, and we go to counseling.


Me:33, WW:30
BD:12/14/16, EA
no children
Still together