Thank you for getting back to me so quickly I really do believe that there is nobody else that has her heart at least not yet she is always arround during the evenings ok she might Facebook but she has not met up with anyone I know believe nothing of what they say but she really does not go out with anyone

So she wants out of the marriage because for years and years she has built up resentment with me not doing my share and this has pushed her over the edge I know you say believe nothing to what she says she says she still loves me not in love because of the resentment and is not wanting to be in a relationship full stop not with me or with anyone else and I do believe her.

I just cannot get to grips that so much resentment has festered for so long and she wants out had enough does not notice me doing more does not care ...just wants to live apart from me in separate houses and both co parent from different houses. Her ideal would be both keep living in the same town in different streets the children come and go

She says she does not love me in the way I want her to not in love with me