Logic verses Emotions, Aiming for Logic

[Phoenix_In_Bloom]

Good Morning Pam!

Thank you for visiting my thread and the hugs!

I appreciate it!

Sending you some sunshine and a gentle breeze.

Hugs!

[psluke]

Hi Kitti,

Thank you for the encouragement.

I feel I am starting to make progress on stopping the thinking that just stresses me out.

I just can't do anything to stop the divorce. I am still trying to figure how I'm going to deal with that when it comes and I don't have long to finish figuring it out.

[psluke]

Thank you PIB,

It is so rainy and dreary here today. I am very glad today isn't a day that I need to dig a grave.

[psluke]

Sometimes I think the kids and I are going to be fine and nothing much will change and sometimes I just feel like I can't deal with this at all.

I want to run and there is nowhere to run.

[psluke]

CHL & I really do seem to be trying harder to understand one another in our communications now.

Now we are almost out of time.

WHY COULDN'T WE HAVE GOTTEN TO THIS POINT SOONER?

Because I just now have really got more emotional control?

Or is he in a different place now as well?

[BRIDGET]

Hey, hey, here's another hug.

If it seems like things are spinning too
fast, you can get off the ride and sit
one out.

Though you might not realize it,
you HAVE ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD.

Even if the D goes through,
there will be time.

You will continue to mend things, talk, lighten up,
share, learn and grow.

Don't panic.

This is all about learning a better way.

Believe me, I'm speaking from experience.
My H did porn for a living and chased buxom coeds
around the country while separated from me --
talk about indignity!

But he GOT WHAT HE WANTED and found it
didn't satisfy him the way my cuddling,
affection, understanding and loyalty do.
He really misses me. He just doesn't know
his way home.

You will find strength -- cuz you ARE strong.
You will find peace -- cuz it's ALWAYS WAITING for us.

Good work on thought-stopping, good work on journalling,
good work on figuring out what works.

You're a gem!

I'm so sorry things are hard for you,
and there is fear.

But "When you're going through Hell, keep going!"
said Winston Churchill -- and it's still true.

Love and flowers,

Bridget

[sage]

Miss Pam,

Take lovely Bridget's words to heart...she weaves magic with them, no? And she HAS captured your essence my friend.

Sage

[psluke]

Bridget,

Do you know your posts always seem full of peace?

I have always thought that reading them.

I love them. Calm and peace.

You are right this is NO PLACE TO STOP!!!

Thank you.

[psluke]

Miss Pam,

Take lovely Bridget's words to heart...she weaves magic with them, no? And she HAS captured your essence my friend.

Sage

Hello Sage,

Yes, that is the way her posts make you feel, magical!

I think there is lots going on in my head right now. Not sure it is all making sense yet. But I believe it is still kicking its way into place!

[Phoenix_In_Bloom]

Pam,

I'm reading...don't have much to say though.

Keep up the good work!

Hugs.