Hello I have decided that I wanted to start posting here again I have been reading many threads and I think I am starting to understand the divorce busting principals. The last few months we have settled into a routine and I thought things were starting to mellow, we have been doing things as a family but there has been no intamacy, however she has not looked for anyone else and she tells me she has no intention of dating as has been let down by me and does not want to get in another bad relationship.
So where am right now is she has told me that she loves me and cares about me but because of years of resentment that has built she does not want to live with me and does not want to be married to me any longer. She says I make her feel unhappy and she is not in love with me any longer. Over the years she has been used to doing things on her own (I guess when I was at work for long hours she got used to spending time on her own) and when I came home and then did not do my share arround the house and with our children this has left her feeling empty and resentful. She says that she will always love me I am her children's father and we were together for over 15 years but loving me is not enough and she wants to live in separate homes as she then cannot have resentment about what I do and do not do arround the house and with the children. So I have tried doing more around the house and with our children but She says still not enough does anyone have any suggestions
