Who wouldn't be on edge w/an active MLCer? You never know what they are going to say or do. I wouldn't contact and push your h to make a decision about the situation. For one thing, he probably doesn't know what he wants and second, he may very well do something that will not be in your favor.
As for your daughter, I would advise her that she is not walking in your shoes and YOUR situation is between YOU and her father. Advise her that if she's got issues w/her father, she is old enough to take those issues up w/him directly.
As for your little GD, there may be something else going on w/her and not your situation. She may need to see a doctor to figure out what is going on w/her. Heck, her own mother could be on edge and creating too much tension or the child to deal with.
Westo, also, it is time to start a new thread. Be sure to link your threads and if you can't figure it out, I'll be happy to assist you and provide you a link on how to do so for the next time around.
Last edited by job; 02/02/1707:09 AM. Reason: Reminder to start a new thread
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