Here's the thing, guys. It has nothing to do about remembering or forgetting a birthday or Valentines Day. She chose to dishonor her H and their M. Why, in the name of sanity, would a man buy cards or gifts to give the woman who disrespects him? B/c he fears what she may think? Trust me......her thoughts about her H was formed quite some time ago (and it had little to do about cards and gifts). To cater, pursue, or show she is still the center of his thoughts.....is not effective. It only sets you farther back .
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
