D said to me today that as she can understand me doing NC with H, she wants me to contact him if he doesn't, come March when it will be a year since BD.
She wants me to ask what his intentions are as I am on edge and GD is so upset all the time. She is very angry and wets herself since he left. She will be five in April.
D wants me to push him to make his mind up before GD birthday (which I fully understand) Am I being harsh by saying no I won't?