4.) is peaking in absolutes normal? What kind of mindset does that mean she is in?
At first glance, I'd say she is wayward and is being influenced by outside supporters. It is "normal" for a wayward wife to use absolutes, but then again......don't most women? I am saying not to get hung up on what she is saying. Good or bad, don't try to put certain meanings to what she says. Instead, watch her actions.
Yes, I recommend you use the LRT.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!