I am concerned though that any dating would close the door on my ex W. I think she might pull away and give up on the idea if she wasn't my first choice. The other problem has been her relying on me to have the kids and help her out which I am happy to do. As I mentioned before, she has been suggesting we go out together which is not dating as such but a start. Any third party involved would put a stop to that too.
Until you stop being available to her.....and stop worrying that something you do could close the door to future reconciliation.....and stay away from her and act like you are divorced.....then you can expect to remain in this rut. She has never lost you, and she uses you whenever she wants......and you have imprisoned yourself by your own way of thinking about this stitch.
She has the setup she wants. It works great for her! Why should she change it?
Stay away from teenage girls and find someone your own age.
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It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
