As for what I want.... not sure it matters. I want to keep my house. If I could refi - then I would be able to do it, but only because of child support at this point. But my budget would be super tight. All those extra's my kids are used to would be completely out the window. This is part of what I am finding so hard about this entire thing. My kids are going to suffer. I hate that
Maybe get a more affordable place? That way, with support the kids would still be in a more comfortable spot.
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However, I'm not sure I'll ask for alimony. He's offered to give me the equity from the house. so if I keep it - then I'll let him off the hook.
The equity would come out to be much less, no? If so, why are you letting him off the hook? Oh, I'm right there with you on the anger as mine is a piece of work.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
