Gordie: Pulling it all together 2

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I think you might be right that you're mirroring your W's moods, and that's not necessarily helpful.

When my W's head is filled with feelings, hopes, fantasies of another man... that's when she's the coldest to me. She HAS to be cold to me, to keep her emotional world consistent. She can't simultaneously soak up her passionate fantasies for other men while being kind and warm to me.

I think the same type of dynamic might explain why your W was so cold to you after she spent a few hours w/ POM. Her head (and heart) was still trapped in her fantasy, and she had to keep you out of that world.