I am dying to sit with the mediator and really spend the time to break down all of this about my concerns regarding his wavering responsibility / consistency, his health, etc. but if he is there (and he would be since it's mediation), he will interrupt, overpower, contradict, manipulate, gas light... ANYTHING and I get lost in his projection, conflation of the facts, deflection and steam rolling...
You may find it more comfortable to have each of you in separate rooms. Oh, and the mediator will see through any crap.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
