thanks for responding Kaizen. one difficulty i have with this DR and DB in general, is that I was the one who first had an emotional affair, and acted mean to my ex wife that pushed her away. so i was the one who treated her poorly first. and now she is the one that left.
does that change the DR and DB dynamic? do i still treat her as a WW when i was the one that was WW first? and i thought that talking about our relationship was good, so we could kind of work through any roadblocks to being together in the future?
Married 6 years Separated 1 year Divorced 1/1/17 me 35 wife 30
