i have high cholestrol, testasteron is ok.maybe i wasnt too attracted to my wife after some point , who knows.
therapist says to GAL and focus on myself and not think about getting back together at all.
according to her my main problem was being too bossy and argumentative, snappy. anyhow lets keep us updated.
she e-mailed me yesterday about the stuff she has been upto. basically she is removing herself financially from my life. phone bills, insurance, bank cards etc. we dont owe any balances anywhere so its fairly straight forward. she needs me to release her number from the att account so she can switch it over to her moms.shes got new car insurance.
i called her after receiving this e-mail and went over these things with her. she also wants us to go file the divorce together next week. i told her why not wait to see how everything works out. she is like nope i am sure this is what i want. i want to be divorced and move on. very sure about what she wants. so at this point i think this is the end for our R and M. sayanora soon to be ex wife.she says she wants to be just friends. hmmmm i dont think i could do that after 7-8 years with someone.
im still sad over it but i can not force someone for anything. in the mean time i am hitting the gym with friends and thinking about a game plan for new life. i am stuck with our rental condo.i can afford it but ideally maybe i will need a roommate not to be wastefull.
