***My wife left me about a month ago. I don't know whether I should post a story here, first, but I have something I specifically want to talk about.***

Yes, please post your story/background here because it's hard to give any advice without knowing more about your situation.

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving